Only Allaah knows the pain that a person who has lost a child is suffering and I can only ask Allaah to bless them, relieve their pain and reward them for their trials. Allaah grant them patience and strength.
I first started compiling the ahaadeeth in this book many
years ago as over the years I have known sisters who had been tested by losing
their precious children either before they were born, during birth or after a few
years of life. Allaah grant them and their husbands steadfastness and reunite
them with their offspring in the Everlasting gardens of Paradise where their
children will wait for them and open the doors for them to enter Paradise
together, aameen. Shaykh bin Baz رحمه الله
mentioned in explanation of one of the hadeeth that the reward is for both
parents (not just the Father).
Everyone is tested in different ways and whatever the test
we must have patience and turn to Allaah. Allaah tests his servants to raise
them in degrees in Paradise, without which our deeds would not be sufficient to
gain the same station.
I hope that this booklet will be of benefit for those who
give condolences, a source of consolation for those who have lost a child, a very
brief reminder of the rulings of miscarriage, janazah funeral prayer and
puberty.
There is a section of du’aa to say when grieving, feeling
sorrow and sadness.
As a language teacher I had to include a few vocabulary
words relating to funerals and some common Arabic expressions that the Arabs
use when giving condolences.
The book ends with a list of very heart-felt reminders by
the Salafi Du’aat on the occasion of some funerals in the UK.
I have turned the book into a PowerPoint and video for teaching purposes
as well as to learn the aayaat and du’aa through the audios added. The slides
are also available in jpeg form to pass on via social media. Please use common
sense and do not overburden people with 50 slides all in one go. Send a
reminder now and again and make your intention to ease their grief and lighten
their sorrow. Allaah bless us and you with the reward of green silk clothes for
giving condolences aameen.
See the blog for the resources
mentioned above: www.salafitranslatedbenefits.blogspot.com
